The Snowy Mountains tower silently over the tiny NSW town of Tumut. Many of the men of Tumut were silent too, until a call to Gotcha4Life in 2017 got the ball rolling – and the men talking about their feelings.

Any parent of a teenage boy knows conversations often follow a familiar pattern. A series of questions asked by the parent - and a series of monosyllabic answers from their son. Yep. Nup. Good. Grunt. Stuff. Dunno.